Happy 11th Birthday, Tommy and Isabella!

My all time favorite picture of the two of them.


Dear Tommy,

On your birthday, I am remembering you as a baby who loved to sleep in your dad’s arm pit. Even then you were quirky. I am remembering you dancing to the dog that sang, “Who Let the Dogs Out” and once you got healthy, you were the easiest, happiest baby. As you grew up, I saw what an old soul you had. You just got things. You were kind to everybody. You figured out early on how to get the spotlight and have been there ever since. You love to bust a move to hip hop music. You surprised the nurse at your two-year old appointment when she asked you if you knew your ABC’s. You said, “A. B. C. D. E. F. Little Ditty, ’bout Jack and Diane. Two American kids in the heartland. Jackie gonna be a football star…” Then a year later while getting a shot, the nurse said, “Sing a song,” to distract you from the pain. You broke out with, “Red light, yellow light, green light go. Crazy little woman in a one man show.” All of the people in the office were amazed that you knew the words to “Pour Some Sugar on Me.” I am so proud of you. You love things so fiercely and you work hard to be the best you can. I love that you see CF as a mountain in your way and instead of  accepting that it is there and won’t move, you either climb over it or chip away at it. You have a twinkle in your eye and an infectious laugh and I know God sent you here to make sure I laugh every single day. I love you with all my heart.

This captures his personality so well.

Dear Isabella,

On your birthday, I am remembering the sweetest cheeks ever on a baby. They begged to be kissed and I had no problem spending my days kissing them. I am remembering Shirley Temple curls so blond that I couldn’t believe you were mine. I am remembering how even at 2, you were a girly girl. You let Tommy have the spotlight until you realized you had a way to get it yourself. You would dance for anyone that would watch. You were a “mommy’s girl” right from the beginning and I’m not sure there is a kid anywhere that is more like her mother. Even now, I probably should have watched what I said more often because I hear my words coming out of your mouth. Tommy is two minutes older than you but you are more like the older one. You look out for him all the time. You make sure that he is okay. You are going to make a wonderful mom someday. I watch you with Gia and my heart swells with how much you guys love each other. I am so proud of your loyalty and how even when it is uncomfortable or unpopular, you stand up for what you believe is right. You have a smile that lights up the room when you walk in and when you love, you love with your whole heart. I know God sent you here to show me what unconditional love feels like. I love you with all of my heart.

She always let me dress her up like a little doll.

Happy Birthday Tommy and Belle! May this year be filled with happiness, health, no accidents, minimal drama, success in all you do and very little driving your mom crazy. Love you both!

This morning: October 18, 2012

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  1. Awwwww! What beautiful love letters to your beautiful twins.

    Gia looks so much like Belle!
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  2. Darling photos and wonderful memories. I hope you all have an awesome day celebrating!
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    • If you ask me, we did. If you ask them, they’ll tell you they got the short end of the stick because Nico had his last game. Tommy’s practice was to go to the game and Belle and two of her friends babysat Gia. I took them out to lunch and bought them books at their school’s book fair and Leo took them out to dinner.

  3. So very sweet! Happy birthday to your gorgeous kids!
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  4. Ohmyheart, this is such a lovely ode to your sweethearts!

    Happy birthday to them both, and to *you,* too mama!

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  5. Oh, wow! They are gorgeous. I love that he knew some Def Leopard. I’m a closet hair band lover! And your beautiful daughter…look at that hair. I know the feeling of hearing your words come out of their mouth. Sometimes it doesn’t feel so great. LOL
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  6. Just such a sweet, beautiful post! I loved every word! :) Happy Birthday to your babies!-Ashley

  7. Aw, so very sweet! They are lucky to have you, don’t ever forget that, either.
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  8. Oh my word – what beautiful words. Beautiful mom. Beautiful kids. Love this.
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